Why not CIO...
Here's an excellent article with supporting study regarding the "Let them cry" attitude in America.
http://www.hno.harvard.edu/gazette/1998/04.09/ChildrenNeedTou.html
"I think there's a real resistance in this culture to caring for children," Commons said. But "punishment and abandonment has never been a good way to get warm, caring, independent people."
All I can think to say is... YEAH! :)